“This kind of people are really cool to see, and I’m very pleased to see them.”
I was talking about the first remarkable point for people who are improving constantly in my last blog.
This time I’m going to talk about the second remarkable point, and that is,
“When they fail, make a mistake, or even if they are not happy about their current situations, they never try to make it someone else’s fault or something else’s fault.”
When they fail something or their current situation is not good,
they never blame other people, circumstances, or conditions.
They never say things like,
“I couldn’t succeed because he didn’t do such and such or because he did such and such”
“I lost the last competition because of him”
“I couldn’t win because it was too hot”
“No one praised me that’s why I gave up”
“I failed because my wife didn’t help me“
“I’m poor because my parents were poor”
“I’m like this now because of you”
etc.
People who say those words are not cool at all, and making themselves real losers.
Also, once you think or say those words, you are releasing all the control from your hands, and letting your surroundings and circumstances control you, and then you will keep giving up, and feeling victimised.
People who are improving constantly never waste time and energy for that. If they have time and energy for making those excuses, they would rather use their time and energy to think what they can do right now to make themselves better, and do it the right away.
Sometimes they fail again, but every time they fail, they learn a lot of precious things because they are focusing on themselves rather than other people’s negative aspects. That’s why they improve fast.
Here is the conclusion for “Remarkable points for people I met who are improving constantly as a human being”
“They always have some realistic goals and dreams, and really work on them.
When they fail or make some mistakes on the way to their goals, they never try to make it someone else’s fault, but keep focusing on what they can do to make it better, and keep taking actions.
They take a lot of action, have a lot of experiences, make a lot of mistakes and failures, but keep focusing on themselves. That’s why they learn a lot and improve faster”
This kind of people are really cool to see, and I’m very pleased to see them.
They inspire other people and give us a lot of power and energy.
